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Goodbye for Now

I have been wanting to make a blog post for a while right now, but with life, love and everything that goes along with it… I get busy. Then some things happen that bring us back to reality. Things that remind us to slow down only if it is for a minute. To pause and remember what is really important.

Going through what I went through with my Son this year, as well as losing my only remaining Grandmother reminded me of that.

In some of the following posts I would like to share with you, the life that she lived and shared with my family and I.

When we all were going through old pictures, my Mom found this….

I remember when this picture was taken. It was taken on one of the many weekends I spent with my Grandma, as a teen/college student. I believe Mr. Jim took this picture.

My Grandma loved to tell stories of her childhood and life. We looked at old photographs together, went out to eat (usually lunch and or dinner either Wendy’s or Bob Evans) and went shopping together.

We talked about life, love, and speculated on what happens after death.

Sometimes in the afternoons she would play her flute, and I would play my violin together. We were I believe, at the time this picture was taken working on playing Cannon in D.

In the evenings after watching Jay Leno, we would get ready for bed and say our evening prayers, together.

In the mornings she would always cook eggs and toast while Mr. Jim and I walked around the neighborhood. (When he wasn’t in Florida.) Sometimes her eggs would be rubbery, so she got this egg cooker you put in the microwave and it made perfect eggs. I remember the first time she used it, was one of weekends I spent with her and she used it to cook breakfast.

Many of my friends through high school/college also knew my Grandmother and fondly remember our shopping trips to Buhlers in Medina.

Some may remember the time my Grandma tried to be hip and use the slang my friends were using. She had her “bling” on for the occasion.

She watched me grow up as an elementary school student, graduate from high school, go to college, start a career, become a Nursing Assistant and Author, fall in love, become a Wife and a Mother…

She was there through it all. The friendships, both success and failure, heartbreak and heartache, all major milestones, in my father’s life, my own and Noah’s. All life’s celebrations and we were just getting ready to celebrate the end of “Great-Noah’s” school year with her.

I’ve caught myself more than once, going to the phone to call her. Noah and her were making plans with her for this week, before she passed. Both of us have had a difficult time not being able to talk to her.

When leaving Grandma’s house we always waved and she waved at the door, and if dusk or night…would flip her lights on and off, then we would call and check in with her once we arrived safely home.

We have a similar tradition with my parents, Noah has them stand from the porch and wave, I roll down the windows and we say, “See you tomorrow,” and of course frequent check-ins.

She was more than a Grandmother to me.

She was a friend.

As my Grandmother would say, “Goodbye for Now.”

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The Importance of Story Creation and Early Literacy

Stories are the fabric that binds us all together. Your local library is the most important resource you can utilize and it is all available for free. All you have to do is sign up for a library card. I encourage you to have your children also fill out an application for a library card as well.

I was about five or six years old when I filled out an application for my first library. That is when I fell in love with books and I knew I wanted to be a writer.

I had no idea at that age so many worlds were available at my fingertips and that I could create worlds of my own. My first story I wrote was when I was six and in the first grade. I still have it! It was about a girl who ran away because her parents made her do chores. Of course if was chalk full of spelling errors, but that makes it even more special to me.

You see when your young you don’t care about what others think or what mistakes you may make.You just know you have this idea inside of you that you need to give birth to.

Later that year I began illustrating my own stories as well. The series I created an illustrated was called “The Adventures of the Valley River People.” My parents still have those drawings and stories somewhere. I also typed some of them up on a typewriter. That’s when I fell in love with the process of creation.

I created a whole world. A whole town of people. Some people lived in nursing homes and needed learning to adapt and use wheelchairs. Out of this, was born the ability to empathize with people and later led to a job as an Nursing Assistant as a career, later in my life. I had people that were all from different walks of life and nationalities in my story. One woman was from China and was a Buddhist. She wore beautiful Kimonos and became a princess. One man wrote spooky stories for a living and found a spooky story of his own! He found out the local school was haunted.

I still have ghosts that haunt me. Unfinished stories. They call out to me at night, needing to be written and told. The thing I fear most is that these stories will die with me. Death is perhaps a reminder of the importance of our stories. We have an obligation as writers, readers, as people with souls to tell our own.

I hope that someday when I am gone and six feet under, the stories I have written will outlast me. That they will inspire others and live on in the souls of those that they have touched.

My Son found me again writing his stories this morning when he woke up.

He said to me, “Mom when you die I will still have all these stories…my books,” and then he asked me to read him more. He threw his arms around me and said, “Mommy I love my stories. Please write me more.” That means the world to me.

When he filled out the application to get his own library card, I saw the same joy I felt at the moment when I got mine.

I told him, “You can go anywhere with this. This is your passport to new worlds of adventure.” Perhaps one day he will want to write a story of his own. He loves sharing his own stories with anyone that will listen…and to think that both of our journey’s started with a library card. Isn’t that something?

Grief Comes in Waves

As I’ve gotten older, I realize…

Grief comes in waves.

It never rarely if ever, comes all at once.

Throughout our life we have different kinds of grief.

The kind of grief where we mourn what was…

Or what could have been.

The sense of profound loss when we are unable to make new memories with those we love.

It brings profound sadness, but great joy as well.

Joy because we were able to make those memories and have those experiences.

Experience leaves us with loss.

For this is what it means to be human.

To be so privileged to love someone with such great love, that we feel the profound silence they leave in their wake.

Then when we wake, being able to somehow find our strength and figure out how to carry on.

…To be able to find others, with whom we can share this great loss.

Others, that we can empathize with that know of this kind of Joy, love, and loss… for it is through empathy we all are connected to each other.

We all are drawn and connected together because of Grief. Without it there would be no empathy.

Empathy for what each one of us experiences.

None of us escape Death nor loss.

Death and loss are the great equalizers of us all.

Grief comes in waves and none of us are able to escape it. Rarely does it come all at once.

Throughout this blog series….Grief Comes in Waves, let’s connect.

Please feel free to share any thoughts you may have and connect with me here on my blog, Facebook, Instagram, or LinkedIn!

I look forward to connecting with you!

In Memory of Sue Campbell

░▒▓█►─═ Sue Campbell ═─◄█▓▒░

❤꧁ღ⊱♥ 𝒪𝒸𝓉𝑜𝒷𝑒𝓇 𝟣𝟢, 𝟣𝟫𝟥𝟦- 𝑀𝒶𝓎 𝟤𝟥, 𝟤𝟢𝟤𝟥 ♥⊱ღ꧂❤

𝔹𝕖𝕝𝕠𝕧𝕖𝕕 𝕎𝕚𝕗𝕖,

𝕄𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣,

𝔾𝕣𝕒𝕟𝕕𝕞𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣,

𝔾𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕥-𝔾𝕣𝕒𝕟𝕕𝕞𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣,

𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝔽𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕟𝕕.

“𝓝𝓮𝓿𝓮𝓻 𝓾𝓷𝓭𝓮𝓻𝓮𝓼𝓽𝓲𝓶𝓪𝓽𝓮 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓿𝓪𝓵𝓾𝓮 𝓸𝓯 𝓼𝓱𝓸𝔀𝓲𝓷g 𝓾𝓹.”

𝓘𝓽’𝓼 𝓷𝓸𝓽 𝓸𝓷𝓵𝔂 𝓪𝓫𝓸𝓾𝓽 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓭𝓪𝓷𝓬𝓮, 𝓫𝓾𝓽 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓭𝓪𝓷𝓬𝓮 𝓸𝓯 𝓵𝓲𝓯𝓮 𝓪𝓼 𝓽𝓲𝓶𝓮 𝓶𝓪𝓻𝓬𝓱𝓮𝓼 𝓸𝓷, 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓿𝓪𝓵𝓾𝓪𝓫𝓵𝓮 𝓽𝓲𝓶𝓮 𝔀𝓮 𝓼𝓹𝓮𝓷𝓭 𝔀𝓲𝓽𝓱 𝓸𝓾𝓻 𝓯𝓪𝓶𝓲𝓵𝓲𝓮𝓼.

ℭ𝔥𝔯𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔦𝔫𝔞 𝔒𝔩𝔦𝔳𝔢𝔯- 5/28/23

I hope you all enjoy this video I created.

No words need to be said…

Please simply listen and watch.

Steve Dickson- vocals.

Mr. Dave Morris on the piano,

Mr. Don Woods on the violin.

Recorded on May 11, 2013

The song:

Borning Cry

Written by John Ylvisaker

Alice Hoffman- Magic Lessons

Current Read…

Alice Hoffman

Magic Lessons.

One of my Favorite Authors.

If you liked this book you can read her other books…

Practical Magic, and The Rules of Magic She has a fourth book in the Practical Magic Series Coming out in October, you can pre-order on Amazon.

If you liked Magic Lessons you might like The Book of Speculation by Erika Swyler.