I have been wanting to make a blog post for a while right now, but with life, love and everything that goes along with it… I get busy. Then some things happen that bring us back to reality. Things that remind us to slow down only if it is for a minute. To pause and remember what is really important.
Going through what I went through with my Son this year, as well as losing my only remaining Grandmother reminded me of that.
In some of the following posts I would like to share with you, the life that she lived and shared with my family and I.
When we all were going through old pictures, my Mom found this….
I remember when this picture was taken. It was taken on one of the many weekends I spent with my Grandma, as a teen/college student. I believe Mr. Jim took this picture.
My Grandma loved to tell stories of her childhood and life. We looked at old photographs together, went out to eat (usually lunch and or dinner either Wendy’s or Bob Evans) and went shopping together.
We talked about life, love, and speculated on what happens after death.
Sometimes in the afternoons she would play her flute, and I would play my violin together. We were I believe, at the time this picture was taken working on playing Cannon in D.
In the evenings after watching Jay Leno, we would get ready for bed and say our evening prayers, together.
In the mornings she would always cook eggs and toast while Mr. Jim and I walked around the neighborhood. (When he wasn’t in Florida.) Sometimes her eggs would be rubbery, so she got this egg cooker you put in the microwave and it made perfect eggs. I remember the first time she used it, was one of weekends I spent with her and she used it to cook breakfast.
Many of my friends through high school/college also knew my Grandmother and fondly remember our shopping trips to Buhlers in Medina.
Some may remember the time my Grandma tried to be hip and use the slang my friends were using. She had her “bling” on for the occasion.
She watched me grow up as an elementary school student, graduate from high school, go to college, start a career, become a Nursing Assistant and Author, fall in love, become a Wife and a Mother…
She was there through it all. The friendships, both success and failure, heartbreak and heartache, all major milestones, in my father’s life, my own and Noah’s. All life’s celebrations and we were just getting ready to celebrate the end of “Great-Noah’s” school year with her.
I’ve caught myself more than once, going to the phone to call her. Noah and her were making plans with her for this week, before she passed. Both of us have had a difficult time not being able to talk to her.
When leaving Grandma’s house we always waved and she waved at the door, and if dusk or night…would flip her lights on and off, then we would call and check in with her once we arrived safely home.
We have a similar tradition with my parents, Noah has them stand from the porch and wave, I roll down the windows and we say, “See you tomorrow,” and of course frequent check-ins.
She was more than a Grandmother to me.
She was a friend.
As my Grandmother would say, “Goodbye for Now.”